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11/24/2014

Why do Indians ask your "good self" for your "good name"?

 -       I asked Sujatha's cousin from the U.S what his good name was and he burst out laughing. Sujatha said that his good name was Rahul and his bad name was Bala. 

-       That must have made you mad. 

 

-       It certainly did. Anyway, what was wrong with the question I had asked? 

 

-       You see, native speakers of English don't say, “What's your good name?”. They ask you for your ‘name’, not your ‘good name’. By the way, do you have a ‘bad name’? 

 

-       No, I don't! You mean it's wrong to say, “What's your good name?”. 

 

-       It's quite common within India. But native speakers of English don't use it. 

 

-       Then why do we say it? 

 

-       I think it's the mother tongue influence. I have a feeling that “What's your good name?” is actually a translation of how the question is asked in Hindi. Of course, there may be other Indian languages which ask you for your ‘good name’ as well.* 

 

-       That's interesting. But do you mean to say that native speakers of English never use the expression ‘good name’? 

 

-       Of course, they do. But they don't use it when they want to know your name. The expression ‘good name’ is used to refer to one's ‘reputation’. For example, if someone says “You have ruined the good name of the family”, it means... 

 

-       ...it means you have ruined the family's reputation. 

 

-       Yes, you have brought shame on the family, and what not! 

 

-       Tell me, while we are on the subject of ‘good name’, is it wrong to say ‘good self'’? 

 

-       Good self! I thought there was only one ‘Self’ for everyone to try to realise! I didn't know there was a good self and a bad self! 

 

-       What are you talking about? 

 

-       Just a little philosophy. But never mind. Native speakers of English seldom use ‘good self’. It is considered rather old fashioned. If at all used, it is used in highly formal contexts. Usually in writing. 

 

-       I see. When writing to my uncle or my cousin, I shouldn't use ‘good self’? 

 

-       I wouldn't. Why use good self at all? Just say ‘you’. 

 

Source : http://www.thehindu.com/2000/02/29/stories/13290675.htm

* “When meeting someone Indian for the first time, it is customary for them to ask you what your "good" name is. It could be our way of making a first interaction seem more polite and formal, or could have been a literal translation from the Hindi phrase "Aapka shubh naam kya hai?" (‘shubh’ meaning good, auspicious) Alternatively, it may be a derivation from the Bengali custom of giving everyone a "shubh naam" (a good, or given, name) and a "daak naam" (a petname or nickname).” Source: http://www.samosapedia.com/e/good_name

11/14/2014

Why in India people eat sitting on the floor?

 

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“This tradition is not just about sitting on floor and eating, it is regarding sitting in the ‘Sukhasan’ position and then eating. Sukhasan is the position we normally use for Yoga asanas (i.e. yoga positions). When you sit on the floor, you usually sit cross legged – In sukhasana or a half padmasana  (half lotus), which are poses that instantly bring a sense of calm and help in digestion, it is believed to automatically trigger the signals to your brain to prepare the stomach for digestion.” 

NB: It was brought to my attention that the above message answers the question of the lotus position but not the eating-on-the-ground. In my opinion, 1. It is easier to sit in the lotus position on the ground than on a chair, 2. Indians usually living numerous in a small place, it is more practical not to have a table (it takes less space and anyways when you eat with your fingers you don't really need a table: you can hold your plate with one hand and bring it to mouth level (if required) and use the other hand to grab food), 3. You feel less hot on the floor. It is just my opinion though...

Source: 20 Amazing Scientific Reasons Behind Hindu Tradition: http://desinema.com/hindu-traditions-scientific-reasons/

04/26/2014

The Indian Wedding for Dummies - 7.In a nutshell

Here are all my notes on the Hindu wedding topic: pdf

And long live the newlyweds!

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